You’re not failing as a dad. You’re keeping score on the wrong scoreboard.

Free 5-page field guide. The 4 questions I use to know if I’m winning the game that actually matters, plus the honest cost of being a present dad nobody warns you about.

The Problem

You scroll at 11pm and see another dad with the new truck, the wife in Cabo, the family that looks like a magazine ad. Then you look at your normal car, your normal house, and the kid who fell asleep on your chest, and you wonder if you’re doing something wrong.

You’re not.

You’re keeping score on a board that wasn’t built for the game you’re playing.

If you came up with a dad who was absent, angry, or both. If you made a quiet decision early that you’d do it differently. If you’ve already paid in friends, money, or comfort to be there for your kids. And if you STILL feel like it’s not enough.

This is for you.

WHAT YOU GET

• The 4 questions I use to measure whether I’m actually winning as a dad (the ones Instagram won’t tell you)

• The honest cost of being a present dad, including the part nobody warns you about

• A reframe for the comparison trap that hits at 11pm when the kids are asleep and you’re scrolling